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    rosie_ash Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 12, 2012, 03:27 PM
    Some times I hate my boyfriend so much I kind of want to hurt him
    My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years and although we do love each other sometimes I want to beat the **** out of him and leave with the kids. It's usually over something that other people don't get like asking for a cup of tea when I'm chilled out with a book after putting the kids to bed and his answer is always can't be arsed and I no this is petty but he lives with me I cook for him everyday clean up after him look after our children all day I even have to do things that a fully grown man should not need like get him up for work every morning and run him baths because just last weekend I was away overnight and got a phone call to say he flooded my bathroom. Is it too much to ask for something as little as a cup of ****ing tea. I really hate him when he's like this it is becoming,less and less often but I think that just makes it worse if he could do it last week why not now? See I would leave but when he's not an *** we are the couple all our friends envy.
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    Apr 13, 2012, 02:23 PM
    Can you talk to him about it? Just let him know what you expect so he can work on it. If you don't let him know it will just snowball.
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    Apr 13, 2012, 02:33 PM
    I think you should control your temper,and if you and your boy friend have problems with each other I think it might be best for you to split up,exspecialy if you have kids,kids need a wholesome world when growing up and they should always find that in you,so if your guy is preventing you from giving them that then you should break up.
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    Apr 13, 2012, 02:59 PM
    Your enabling his bad behaviour, your treating him like a child and he's behaving like one in return, how about he gets himself up and runs his own bath!

    If on the whole your happy and its just the odd time he wreaks your head, tell him when things are going good, for now just quietly stop doing the little things he takes for granted, if its your part of the house jobs to cook dinner still do that ( its my job too, plus the laundry, husband does it sometimes, mostly me, he has his own jobs in the house,that I rarely do!)

    For women sometimes the little things our guys do for us mean a lot, getting you a cup of tea and a biscuit without being asked could be repaid ten fold by you ( cause your feeling the love! Right? ) so talk to him, tell him straight.
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    talaniman Posts: 54,327, Reputation: 10855
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    Apr 13, 2012, 10:00 PM
    When things are good explain to him what makes you upset, or disappointed.

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