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    Karla18 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 26, 2012, 10:02 AM
    I think I'm going crazy!
    I'm a leasbian I was in a long relationship with this girl. I left her in October of 2011. Now we back but I find out she hook up with some girl. Now that girl leaves in Califonia but they still talk and I hate it. She said nothing is going ob with them I don't believe her. Now me and her are not together were just friends with benefit like she said but I want to is to get back together and she don't want. I'm going crazy thinking stuff and I can't let go. What should I do?
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    mudweiser Posts: 2,750, Reputation: 707
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    Mar 26, 2012, 11:02 AM
    Well try talking to her again.

    Tell her how you feel.

    If she still refuses to start a relationship with you then you move on.

    Dating a man or a woman isn't any different-- by you allowing yourself to be used you just end up hurt and later you start resenting that person for using you and it's just one big ugly mess.

    So my advice is, talk to her, if she still wants to remain friends with benefits tell her that it's not okay with you and that you are going to cut your losses and move on.
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    Mar 26, 2012, 11:32 AM
    In a friends with benefit relationship this type of thing will always happen, especially because it is a situation that lets you do whatever you want. If you are not happy in that status, you can either ask her to be your girlfriend, if she doesn't want to, and you are not OK with the status, then it is time to let it go.
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    Mar 30, 2012, 07:20 PM
    Have you tried meeting or seeing other people? She must be constantly on your mind, eh? Try to do a project to be distracted.


    So, have fun and hang out somewhere that you could be seen by other people.
    There are so many ways to meet other people. Go ahead, explore, so you can take
    Your mind off her even for just awhile. You will not go crazy if you have
    Support. You could ask support from family and friends.

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