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danr117 · Mar 26, 2012, 09:11 AM

Hi, haven't really been on this before so bear with me because I'm kind of new:)
So my best friend is a girl lets call her 'danni' (not real name makes it easier wre both 18)we've been best friends for about 9 months and its been absolutely great:)
About a month ago on the same night we both explained to each other that we both like each other more than a friend and that we both really like each other, since then we've been callling each other and texting allot more saying how we feel and we've both gotten closer because of it. Initially we both sai we shouldn't go out with each other because of other people in the friendsjip group liking her and we didn't want to cause a rift.
The changinf point though was last week when after having a very long walk with her just chatting and talking about things, she takes both of my hands and we start to kiss each other.this was amazing. After we both were so happy and smily etc we've been texting each other over the weekend and just being all romantic etc and still are:)
The problem I have is that I personally would like to be just more than a kiss and flirting, I want to be her boyfriend. What am I supposed to do? And what do I say?
Thank you for reading:)

mudweiser · Mar 26, 2012, 11:06 AM

You say "Hey Danni, I really like you, not just as a friend but more than that. You make me feel happy/great/amazing, and I would like..no love for you to be more than just my friend. Since you make me feel so happy/great/amazing I'd like to take you out on a date this weekend if that's okay with you?"

The end.

You said what you wanted and now the ball is in her court.

mmresd · Mar 26, 2012, 11:20 AM

She already knows how you feel, from that to boyfriend is only a question away. Now if by "more" your are talking about sex, it will come, be patient.

danr117 · Mar 30, 2012, 08:54 AM

Hi again thanks for the feedback and help it helped set my mind straight so thankyou:)
Its been getting a bit complicated recently with her and I'm not sure what to do... again. Basically she said to me whilst we were walking together that she see's me as more attractive when I'm not being all 'lovely' with her and that she thinks that I'm being too full on with her and that I have to stop doing that for her to like me more.
At this point I'm really confused and to be honest pretty upset, she still says that she likes me the same way she does (as in attracted to me/fancies/likes) and still is sending me texts saying things like 'how you doing baby/hun?xxxxxxx' and 'your so fit' etc. is it wrong for me to want more than just kissing occasionally and flirting allot?
She also told me that she's going on a date/lunch with this guy on Saturday which is'nt good in my view. I'm so confused about what to do, can anybody help me plz:( I was going to ask her out but I'm not so sure now am I being used?
Thanks again -Dan