[FourLeafClover2]

Hi, I'm a 13 year old Bi-sexual girl. (Well, I think I am). I didn't realize it until just now. I was a at a roller rink& I motor boated three girls. One being my best friend. I know this isn't the place to post this kind of stuff. But, I really need some help. I currently live with my Mom. My dad just moved out about 2 months ago. My family Kid around about me being a "Lesbian" When Actually I like boys. I wouldn't ever do hardcore things with them. But, I like girls also. My Best friend doesn't think I am. But, I flirt with her a lot. I also flirt with one of my friends at school. I don't think anyone has noticed. I want to tell my best friend that I am attracted to her. One of her friends is Bi-sexual Also. I need help. For the past two hours I have been crying because, I know I am lonely. I know that no one my age is a Lesbian or Bi-sexual. I feel really alone right now& Don't know what to do. Yes, I watch Lesbian Porn& Masturbate to it. That may seem bad because I am Catholic & I'm 13. I know, I know. I'm going to hell. But, I need help! I am REALLY Lonely. I want to tell my best friend. Should I? & How can I not be lonely & Not like girls also.

[Fr_Chuck]

At 13 you should not be "anything" sexual. You should not be doing anything sexual with anyone. First straight or lesbian it is first illegal. At 13 it is not unusual to be confused about your sexual feelings.

[cfrbuofs]

Well I'm not going to shoot you down because you've done sexual things at a young age. If you think you're ready then that's your choice, don't let anyone tell you differently. Personally, I think adults harp on kids that sexuality is bad and that you're going to get stds get pregnant and die. When in reality, adults should be addressing it and letting the younger people get intelligent about those sort of things and take the proper precations, because no matter whAt they say , kids are still going to be sexually active and curious. Look at the generation were in, there's no stopping it. I think it's normally to be curious about your sexuAlity. I know I was when I was your age and even older. You'll experience it throughout high school sometimes. Take a breath, don't tell them you like them or are attracted to them unless you are 100% sure about it. You have nothing to be embarrassed about. Where I live it's certainly not illegal, I don know your location. Women and men should not hide or be embarrassed of there sexuality. Embrace it, you might not know exactly who you are and what you want. But experimenting ( if you're comfortable and ready) is probably the way to find out what you like and what your sexual orientation is. Be yourself is the best advice anyone can give!

[chlojo]

Well I'm in the same situation too xx I swear down in 13 xx and I'm a girl, anyway if you ever feel lonely just know that we are the same and A lot of my friends thought they were bi or les but really it turns out that it is all that hormonal crap , I think your just bi-curious which means you aren't sure but you wannt to see what its like xx babez I can always text you or any thing and really if you like someone then tell them its better out than in cause if you bottle it up then it will stress you out xx