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elliehartman · Feb 11, 2012, 08:35 PM

I am 17 and have been bulimic for the past 15 months. Before that, I struggled with bulimia a bit for a couple of months at a time. In the past I was able to stop, and I keep telling myself I am in control; however, after binging three times today, I am finally willing to admit I don't have control. I want to stop, but I don't know how. Unfortunately, I still live at home and am a minor, so I need to find a way to get help without my parents/family finding out. If my mom found out, she would fall into a worse depression than she already is in and my dad's anger would just get fired up again. In summary, since my parents can absolutely NOT find out, does anyone have any ideas? :)

elliehartman · Feb 17, 2012, 10:29 AM

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I am 17 and have been bulimic for the past 15 months. Before that, I struggled with bulimia a bit for a couple of months at a time. In the past I was able to stop, and I keep telling myself I am in control; however, after binging three times today, I am finally willing to admit I don't have control. I want to stop, but I don't know how. Unfortunately, I still live at home and am a minor, so I need to find a way to get help without my parents/family finding out. If my mom found out, she would fall into a worse depression than she already is in and my dad's anger would just get fired up again. In summary, since my parents can absolutely NOT find out, does anyone have any ideas?

akagirl1987 · Feb 20, 2012, 02:43 PM

Hi, I am really sorry to hear that you are suffereing bullimia at the moment. I have been there myself and I can understand the fact that you do not want your parents to find out.I tthink it may help you to call someone like Samaritans. It isn't just for suicidal people, they are they to help with all kinds of issues, they will be able to give you good advice and be able to point you in the right direction. Their number is <removed for privacy issues> if you need them to call you back they will and you can write or email them as well if you do not want to speak to them on the phone. Until then, try keeping a food diary, and also try to work out why you feel the need to control your eating in this way and some reasons you feel it may have started. Good luck!

Somebody1234 · Mar 7, 2012, 09:49 AM

Speak with a school counselor or nurse. I think whatever you tell them could be taken as confidential. I don't think they would tell your parents unless you want them to. But on the flip side, I feel like sooner or later your parents will find out. Bulimia is a big deal, and I think its something that probably shouldn't be a secret. I understand that you don't want your parents to get involved, but I feel like even if you were to go to a school counselor or nurse, in order for them to take the proper steps in healing you through the process, they might let your parents know. I don't know to what extent you're suffering with this disorder, but if they have to put you in a facility to help you through it, your parents are bound to know regardless. Don't take my complete word on that, because I'm really not 100% sure, but do talk to your school counselor or nurse about it. I can't guarantee your parents won't find out, but if that's what it takes to get you better, so be it. Good luck!

Somebody1234 · Mar 7, 2012, 09:55 AM

And if you do end up speaking with a school counselor, let them know that you really don't want your parents to find out about it. I think they'd be understanding about it. But like I said before, I think in the long run, especially if its really bad, your parents probably will need to know. I wish you the best of luck!