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    Jan 5, 2012, 02:22 AM
    Do men come back after break up?
    My husband is in a relationship with another women. Is there any chance of his leaving her and getting back in the family he has lived in for 25 years?
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    Jan 5, 2012, 10:14 AM
    Sure it is when he gets tired of being a lying cheater, and IF the new chick gets tired of him. That may be next week, next year, or never.

    How long will you wait before you start looking out for yourself? That's the real question.
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    Jan 15, 2012, 10:04 AM
    Why wait for a cheater? He may do it to you again.. been there and done that don't put yourself through the heartache hun it is not worth it.
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    Jan 30, 2012, 06:14 AM
    They always tend to come back but would you want to put yourself through that pain of being again with him and not getting that image out of your head, he had someone else and was not satisfied with me. MOVE ON I think the best thing you can do for your family is to move on and be happy, don't let him destroy you, he will realise what he had and what he will never have again
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    Jan 30, 2012, 06:31 AM
    He might... he might not... and even if he does... who is to say for how long before he does it again. Sure he MIGHT have learned a lesson, but I'm thinking that's not very likely.
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    Jan 30, 2012, 06:33 AM
    So true smoothy, once a cheater always a cheater and there is no guarantee that he might not do it again.
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    Feb 13, 2013, 02:58 PM
    Why do you want a man with that kind of character back into your life? Be thankful that you are no longer with him (I know it's hard to think so now). Your best revenge is to let his new love putting up with that poor character. You might not see it now that his leaving is a blessing until you heal but you will... You heal faster if you decide that you won't ever take him back ever again and focus on the new life without him... Your suffering is sadden and effecting your children too and that not fair for them
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