[suzibabe]

I met this lad and we got together with in 3 weeks of knowing each other I then began to fall for him e.g. Wanting to see him all the time... He allways hugs me and kisses me and tells me he loves me.

But I'm his 3rd girlfriend he has ever had and I'm his first kiss.. I'm falling for him and I have now been with him for 5 months and we are beginning to talk about our future together. He treats me like an angel and I treat him like one to.. But I'm scared he will leave me for someone else because it has happened to me before. . I'm scared I will lose him to someone else.. .

Help me I don't know what to do.

Xxxx thanks suzanne xx

[TrueFaith]

HI

Rule 1 of any relationship

Do not Punish your partner for other peoples mistakes!

Stop worrying about things you can't control!
And worry about the things you can control!

He could leave you
Then again you could get hit by an asteroid tomorrow

Don't think like that. It does you no good kid.
Stop worrying about what may or may not happen
And focus on what is happening
Focus on your future together as a couple and plan as best as you can.

It has only been 5 months that's not long at all in a relationship.
Just enjoy the time you have together and see where this new relationship takes you.

[talaniman]

Don't let the experiences of the past screw with the present. Maybe you are falling way to fast, or are so happy you never want it to end.

Relax and enjoy what you have. 5 months is not a long time so don't get so carried away by good feelings that you look for bad things that could happen. Acting out of fear, only messes up the happiness, so let it go.

Slow down, maybe you are moving to fast. Balance your life with other good things if you are getting dependent on him to be happy with yourself, or your life. Balance is what gives you the strength and confidence to have courage, and deal with your fears.

How old are you both.