[babe23]

Ok, so I went on my fiancés computer (he knows I go on his computer and he doesn't mind) and I turned on the screen, and porn videos came up. I know it's a guy thing, and that's what guys do, but we had sex last night and if he wants more sex, or to be a bit adventurous all he has to do is ask. He knows I have some limits, but I am open to talking about them.

So I asked him about it, and he said there is nothing to do at 6 am when he gets up for work that's why he watches porn, and he just watches it like you watch TV.

So I came up with a few ideas, and one of them was cuddling for a while before he gets up, and he did that, but I got up this morning, and there was more porn open, when I know I closed the stuff last night.

What should I do now? And why does he keep doing it? Is he addicted? And I'm not jealous or anything, I am just worried, every one has urges but I hold on to mine until he wants to do things with me.

[talaniman]

This I not about YOU, his urges, or sex. To a guy, its just a program to watch. Like an HBO movie.

Leave it alone. Don't dwell on it, don't make it personal, basically don't trip about his morning routine before work. Its only a big deal if you make it one, or if it stops him from going to work.

Hey some guys like the news with coffee in the morning, he likes porn.

[geminichick]

I had an issus with my ex. He was addicted to porn. It's not abnormal for men to watch porn. Men need visuals. Where as us women, we kind of use our imaginations. Has he ever compared you to those women in the porn movies? Does he make any comments about you to make you feel inferior to those women? Has he ever made you want to do something your not comfortable with? If so you need to talk to him about this.

[awkward...]

I know it can be a bit unnerving knowing that they are watching porn, I personally have no real issue with it. There are some things that I won't do in the bedroom and I'd rather him watch a computer screen that find a girl willing to do nasty things to him...