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    baileyc91 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 11, 2011, 11:30 PM
    Insecure issues and trust issues
    I'm 20 years old and was touched as a child. My dad wasn't there so I feel like no man will ever love me. I don't really have a hard time find one I just have a hard time keeping one. I feel like I push them away with my trust issues and insert. I want a relationship so bad but I'm not sure if I'm ready for one because of my own issues.
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    Dec 3, 2011, 11:12 PM
    First of all, before I answer this any further, do you mean you were sexually abused as a child?
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    Jul 23, 2012, 03:23 PM
    I am so sorry to hear that you were treated so unfairly as a child. Your trust issues are totally natural given your circumstance. Good news is, you still can have a great relationship with someone. I too have some trust issues, and find myself afraid of terrible things that might happen. What is for certain, however, is that we cannot predict the future. If you find yourself interested in someone, give it a try. If you find that you are feeling skeptical, talk about it, ask questions and mention that you have trust issues that you want to get rid of. Might work out, and it might not. But a person that is good for you will get it. Try not to anticipate what might happen, and focus on what you do like.
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