[twinkiedooter]

Ask your parents for a trial stay with your grandma for say one school year and see what they say about that.

[dontknownuthin]

It's hard to adjust to a new place, but it's worth doing. Stay with your parents, visit your grandmother often - perhaps for next summer. YOur parents will not want to give you up at 14. I am not oblivious to how hard it is to be away from your good friends, but at 14 your friendships are very likely to change anyway.

Normally when kids get into their teens and get more into their personal hobbies, interests, sports and clubs at school, they tend to gravitate toward the other kids in those interests. Also, it's very normal for people to move - you will have other moves in your life and friends and relatives who will move as well. You need to rely on yourself to get through these times of transition. I think that avoiding such a transition will be a bad mistake for you, as this is a lesson worth learning now and will serve you well for the rest of your life.

Don't blame your poor performance in school on where you life - you know that your friends don't cause you to get bad or good grades. Focus on improving, get involved in a sport or activity like theater, choir, band, a club - offer your services for babysitting, or volunteer. You will find that when you jump into your new school and community and are actively part of it, you will like it and have a new group of friends.

By visiting your grandmother during the summer, you can also maintain your old friendships near her.

My son was about your age when we moved 400 miles. He spends most summers in our old community, where his Dad still lives, and now has homes and friends in two cities and loves it. Friends from each visit him in the other, and it's really turned out great for him. You can do this.

[Fr_Chuck]

Of course a stay there, also mean that you will not see your parents and they will not see you. And it is not about following the rules, but your parents wanting to be in and part of your life.

As a parent, having my children visit for a couple months is one thing, moving there are two different things.

Also at your new location you make new friends.

If you can do good in school in one location, you can do good in both locations, it is a matter of desire.

[marissa14]

But I have been here for 2 years its still the same and I don't actually mean moving I mean staying there for 2-3 months

[mgilesxx]

I think that you should do what is best for you in life seeing as they don't visit your grandmother why can't you live there and be her mini carer x GOOD LUck x

[lolluvya9]

Just ask the worse they could do is say no. Which you probably don't want. But after if that doesn't work, ask your grandmother to talk to your parents about it too. I bet you if she asks it may work.

Hope this helps (>_<)

[bsykes98]

Im stuck in the same situitation but I need to get out its a lot of reasons but its not good here