[crazyINlove91]

Right me and my boyfriend have been dating for nearly 9months. He used to hate holding hands and cuddling. So I started holding his hand and cuddling him in public and he started doing it back. In the last 3months this has stopped... he won't cuddle me at home or won't let me cuddle into him. Wen we are out in public he pulls away every time I try to cuddle or touch him. I've explained how I feel and all he says is "you dont need me to do that for u to know i love u because u no how much i love u (even tho he never tells me)and u also no im not an affectionate and lovey dovey person". Im just nt feeling the love. Is he not into me. Or am I being daft...

[talaniman]

Nothing to do with you. He ain't into that kind of thing, so don't force it. He is the way he is, and you are the way you are.

If you need cuddles to feel the love, tell him, and if you can't get what you want at least some of the time, then why stay?

[I wish]

Now you know who he really is. The question isn't why he doesn't do something anymore. The question is, do you still want to be with him now that you found out who he really is?

[ZoeMarie]

Check out the book The Five Love Languages. I'm glad I read it. It explains how everyone shows love and receives love in different ways. Not everyone is the same when it comes to affection. It's important to understand that.