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confusedboy!! · Jul 27, 2011, 12:11 PM

*** help me... I'm 18 year old boy madly in love with 21 year old girl who lives in different state.
Can I proceed with this love or should I drop this.

phillysteakandcheese · Jul 27, 2011, 12:26 PM

Does this girl feel the same way about you?

There's no reason you can't pursue it, and if it's really love between the two of you, you should at least try to make it work. However... Long distance relationships are difficult, even when both people are initially enthusiastic about "making it work".

If this girl still doesn't know you exist, trying to make her feel the same way you do - from a distance - might not be the best thing for you to put your time, energy, and heart into.

confusedboy!! · Jul 27, 2011, 01:34 PM

Thank you phillysteakandcheese. But I'm not sleeping still talking with the girl...

Handyman2007 · Jul 28, 2011, 06:19 AM

Proceed cautiously until you know how she feels about you.

joypulv · Jul 28, 2011, 01:08 PM

It's a little puzzling when someone asks 'can I.' Why would you need to ask that? You are both adults. If she likes you, are you wondering - what? Age? Distance? 18 and 21 are a lot further apart than 28 and 31. Especially if she has a good job, money, or is in grad school. How would you see each other? What are you doing with your life at the moment? Summer after high school, loose ends, what? Do you live with your parents? Do you have a car?

All that practical stuff really does matter.

Fr_Chuck · Jul 28, 2011, 01:12 PM

The 18 sounds somewhat less mature, since they can't "sleep" with someone that they are just talking to.

1. how did you meet
2. have you ever meet in person
3. what type of person is this,
4. are they asking for any money
5. what are you plans on keeping in contact
6 how often can you travel to meet in person

confusedboy!! · Aug 3, 2011, 05:13 PM

I askd her whether she lyk me or not. She tld she liks me. I'm hPPY . She too loves me

ScottGem · Aug 3, 2011, 05:16 PM

This site is not texting. We type in full words and sentences here.

How do you know she is really a 21 yr old woman? You really need to proceed with caution. You also need to answer all the questions we have asked,

Fr_Chuck · Aug 3, 2011, 05:21 PM

She said she loves you or likes you, how many times have you meet in person ? Please answer my questions above