I don't think anyone is ever fully prepared for the changes a baby brings into your life. But when the moment comes, you find an inner strength and you just know that it is right. And when baby comes, you will not be able to imagine how you lived without them. It sounds to me that you guys are very prepared. You are doing all the right things, and really getting your lives in order, taking the responsible way to parenthood. The uncertaintly you feel of whether you are really ready tells me that you are definitely on the right track. You want to make sure that everything is ready (including yourselves) for baby, so baby will have a great start. Basically, with everything in place financially and so forth, if you and hubby sit down and talk about your fears and hopes, and decide that you are ready, then you are as ready as you are going to be. We are preggy with our second little boy, and each time we faced uncertainties, but we have never doubted that it was right, and the excitement grows with each passing day. At the end of the day,every parent can only do what they can do for their kids. Loving and caring, and providing. Best of wishes, and good luck.
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