[Chidi01]

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How do I overcome missing someone I love so much"distance is killing me"

[adviceishere]

Did you guys break up? Or are you in long distance relations? The only way to overcome it, is to keep busy. I know you have probably heard it all before but its true.

You need to do something different everyday, meet a friend, go shopping, finish projects, have something new everyday of the week, fill your schedule as much as possible. :)

[amicon]

Could you come back with some more details please?

[Chidi01]

Yeah! It's a long distance relationship.would cheating on her be the best for me?

[adviceishere]

Why on earth would that be the best thing to do?

[amicon]

If you're in a relationship with someone how on earth would cheating solve anything?

If you can't do the relationship LD-you should break up-not cheat.

[Chidi01]

My roommate in school wants my girlfriend.although he has not told me about it but I can see it in his eyes.but he told someone about about his desire to sleep with my girl & I'av not asked him.what should I do.:mad:

[Devorameira]

A lot of people want a lot of things they never get. As long as you know and trust your girlfriend and know it'll never come to fruition, I'd just ignore it.

[Chidi01]

Tanx but how do I cope with sexual urge.am 23 and I don't masturbate.am nt a fan of prostitute .when I say cheating I really meant something like a substitute.

[adviceishere]

Better start masturbating then or else end it with this girl, there is no way you could love her "so much" if you are thinking of cheating. Long distance relations clearly don't agree with you, don't be selfish and look elsewhere, end it first and then only address your needs.

[I wish]

Why are you still with her when you have so many thoughts about replacing her?

[adviceishere]

Why do you even care? You're the one that's thinking of cheating on her
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...er-578154.html

[Chidi01]

I love her and I always want to be next to her.but lets not forget am a human being that have feelings and urge masturbating is really not going to work I know because I don't do it.may be I'll try the with the prostitute is that OK?

[I wish]

Can you really live with the guilt of cheating on your girlfriend?

[shazamataz]

Tell you girlfriend about your sexual urges and your plans to either cheat or use a prostitute.

See what she says and get back to us.

[JudyKayTee]

Maybe the girlfriend also has sexual urges and is either masturbating or considering "using" a (male) prostitute. Women have urges, too. That's not just a male thing.

This could be a very meaningful conversation.

Wonder if OP would be willing to record it for my listening pleasure.

This is an interesting thread. I would think the approach would be "I love and miss you so much but you're not here so I am going to cheat on you." Yes, very interesting.

[Synnen]

Please do NOT use chat speak.

Type out the full word.

Otherwise, I will assume you are 13, and treat you as such--meaning, I will delete your post because you are on an ADULT board.

[Homegirl 50]

Is this the same girl you are wanting to cheat on?

[Chidi01]

I know you don't expect me to tell her.if I should do that it's going to curse serious problems in our relationship.I know her very well she's not going to agree to it.now am confuse really don't know if I'll use a prostitute or do the masturbating thing(ow!)but I think I can live with the guilt of cheating.am not the first.maybe I'll try telling her indirectly.

[Synnen]

I feel sorry for your girl.

You SHOULD tell her. It SHOULD cause problems in your relationship.

How would you feel if SHE went to a prostitute because masturbation just isn't working to cure HER urges?

You're a jerk. Either masturbate or break up with this girl. She doesn't deserve the diseases you're going to give her just because YOU can't control yourself.