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    jaimie02 Posts: 114, Reputation: 6
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    Jan 26, 2007, 10:15 AM
    How to get attention from the fellas
    IS it common for a guy to feel really passionatly about 2 girls at the same time?

    What is it that guys like in a girl?

    What gets a guy to even pay attention to a girl?

    How can I make guys act like I'm not a freak of nature?

    I know its not because I'm totally ugly because people tell me quite of ten that I'm a pretty girl, not to sound conceited or anything.

    Why do guys like girls that are--to everyone else its clear-- totally WRONG for them?
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    Jan 26, 2007, 11:53 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by jaimie02
    IS it common for a guy to feel really passionatly about 2 girls at the same time?

    What is it that guys like in a girl?

    What gets a guy to even pay attention to a girl?

    How can i make guys act like im not a freak of nature?

    I know its not because im totally ugly because people tell me quite of ten that im a pretty girl, not to sound conceited or anything.

    Why do guys like girls that are--to everyone else its clear-- totally WRONG for them?
    A lot of guys go for looks. I wouldn't stress out about it. The more you wait the better the person will be
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    Jan 26, 2007, 11:54 AM
    Because they think they no what the want but the don't most of them like girls that "put out" and those are the ones you want to avoid unless you want to... but when a girl dolls up for them and breaks the rules (a real bad ) they fall head over heels! The one I hang with dose
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    Jan 26, 2007, 02:33 PM
    It actually depends on the kind of attention you desire (YES there are more than one type)
    If you crave sexual attention, wear revealing (please don't wear one of those torn up shirts that make you look like you just got raped that's just trashy) clothing and walk around like you own the place, but be selective in who you choose to talk or associate with for it will communicate to the guys you are not some easy girl that'll fall head over heels in a blink of an eye, also it keeps the losers away. It's all about confidence.
    If you crave personal, emotional attention, speak your mind often and ask for advice (from guys) about subjects that bother you in life.

    P.S. not to make you feel bad, but from personal experience my friends and I tell lots of girls that they're pretty when nothing can be further from the truth just to make them feel good about themselves. I do the opposite actually, I tell ugly girls that they're pretty (to help themselves esteem), but I rarely tell pretty girls that they're so because the truth is they probably know and don't need you to tell them something they already know (and also because they could use a little modesty lol). You rarely hear anyone being called ugly cause that's just plain mean and unnecessary, but it kind of pisses me off when I see a butt ugly girl prancing around in a skirt acting like a porn star just because some people told her she was pretty. But I digress. Sorry I just saw one from school and had to vent it out somewhere, but I'm sure you're a very pretty girl lol (I'll let you dwell on that for a bit).
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    Jan 26, 2007, 03:27 PM
    Thanks

    well its actually not other guys who tell me its more like people I've known since the day I was born... family friends who haven't seen me in a few years... and other random r=people even
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    Jan 26, 2007, 03:30 PM
    This is something my husband told me a few weeks ago, and I shall pass it on: The kind of attention a woman wants will be displayed by how she presents herself. Guys are attracted to a certain confidence that draws them in, because they aren't intimidated by it, and some (women too) are just too shallow to see more from a person, and instead pursue the body, the wallet, and the car.
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    Jan 27, 2007, 12:12 PM
    IS it common for a guy to feel really passionatly about 2 girls at the same time?
    Many guys are its just guys hormones don't stop they can be atracted to more than one
    Girl at a time

    What is it that guys like in a girl?
    All guys are different, some go for personallity or for looks it really matters on the guy. But you can tell if you look at his preverous girlfriends.

    What gets a guy to even pay attention to a girl?
    Don't dress skanky that turns most guys away dress nice but not like your going to an interview, also flash him a smile some time.

    How can i make guys act like im not a freak of nature?
    Change your personality a little bit but not at all let them know you want them to notice you but don't go all the way.

    Why do guys like girls that are--to everyone else its clear-- totally WRONG for them? They may like these girls because their easy, or they play hard to get.

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