[kmo2011]

Me and this guy were seeing each other for 5months. I started talking 2 my ex again after 3months just wanted to c if he was OK (this was a 3year relationship). I told my new partner I spoke to my ex and he was OK at first then told me I had 2 chose my ex or him. I said I wouldn't talk 2 my ex again so I didn't. I was going to the shop and my partner saw me but didn't say anything to me. My ex said hi and my parter saw me and my ex together. I feel bad because I've done wrong. I really love this guy and want him back HELP

[talaniman]

You may love him but, do you need an insecure guy who jumps to conclusions, and does such drastic things before getting facts??

Leave him alone, and let him come to his senses, or whatever he uses to make rational decisions.

[Devorameira]

Seriously - you can't have a healthy relationship without some trust.

He seems controlling and insecure as can be and that's not a good thing. Eventually he'll be wanting you to give up friends and family too... are you ready for that?

[I wish]

How old is he?

Does he explain where his insecurities comes from?

[amicon]

I think you should rethink this relationship-too many red flags after too short a time.

You have to choose?

Emotional blackmail is n o t attractive.