He's become attached and is afraid of allowing himself to become any more attached or vulnerable. This is a classic case. Unless he's practicing abstinance, the whole "i dont want to get you pregnant" thing is bullcrap. If he is sexually active then there's always a chance. But this is what you do, don't show your eagerness to get back with him. Let him know that him getting with you is not a revolving door and that maybe he should spend some time alone or away to think about what he really wants. And try to give hime space, wait for him to come to you. Remember, the one who cares less (or at least is good at making it look so) has more power. Good Luck
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