Been Seeing this girl for 3 months.. Needs to figure herself out
I am 25 she is 24...
So I met this girl out one night and we instantly hit it off. Didn't hook up, didn't do anything, just spoke. She is a very proper girl, very classy, smart, funny, athletic.. Literally my dream girl.
Anyway, she had just got out of a relationship a month prior to us meeting. She warned me she was not ready for a relationship, which I was completely OK with. We have gone on dates, hung out with friends, spoke everyday (phone/txt). I went out to her house and met her parents, she met mine.
Every couple of weeks she would say she was getting freaked out, she didn't want to hurt me, she didn't want to get hurt and she cannot open up completely. To which I replied I am not pressuring you in anyway, I am here for you, we can go as slowly as you wish.
Things have been great, until this morning that is. We had dinner plans and she told me that she doesn't think that we should be more than friends, that she is nervous and she is still very hurt. She did say that if she were to be with anyone it would absolutely be me that she things Im attractive, great person, and she likes me a lot. I completely understand this and want to just be around her but she is so perfect that I want more. I can wait though, she is worth it.
How do I handle this now? Do I invite her out? Do I contact her? How do I approach this without screwing it up as I have been known to do..
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