[CoolColleen]

I have two problems:

The women at Nellis AFB are very jealous between making false claims to telling men I am only into black men or they try to fix me up with old men who don't have no money. A women starting a rumor I was mentally ill.

I have a signed settlement agreement with Nellis AFB to keep their interaction professional but that isn't working. A manager at the base library keeps telling people I am trying to get her fired. She tells me and everyone her manager has her back. Everyone knows I am a problem.

I know these civilian female workers would not be open with their hostile and verbal abuse unless either the base commander, duty commander or their wives were causing it.


2nd problem

My ex boyfriend who is an US Deputy Marshall is now on Facebook using his middle name and last name: A*** H*****.
His always been jealous of my social skills and my ability to connect with important and wealthy people. He believes he should be the one these people should be friends with, not me.

For some strange reason I have lost over 300 people since he has been on Facebook, since January 2011. I have him blocked but individuals on my Facebook keep claiming I am a fake using them for their status. I have double and triple checked, but he is not connect to anyone I know.

I have been praying about this. I can't prove it is my ex-boyfriend. Being an US Marshall he could get access to my friends list easy. Again I can't prove it is my ex boyfriend but I started to lose Facebook friends since he establish his Facebook profile.

Should I keep praying? Thanks

[talaniman]

You seem to have a lot of people around you, who could be putting the bad mouth on you. Honestly it could be any one. Praying may help, but being more discreet and discerning about who you allow close to you would be better.

Especially be more guarded and secure with your face book, as because you don't know how people are connected, it doesn't mean they are not.

Just keep yourself professional, and ignore, or report those that are not.

[Edy020]

Could it be that your public persona is one that people assume as too self centered and egotistic? If you read your own question, it is filled with people who are jealous of your ability to connect with "important and wealhy people." What about your ability to connect with the average person? Search your heart, and see if maybe you could be perceived as too materialistic, or an opportunity seeker. While I commend that you have been praying, maybe you should pray for a deeper understanding of yourself, and your own motives for seeking out particular types of individuals.
I have often told my children, "If someone calls you something unpleasant, don't worry about it, but if everyone calls you the same thing, you should take a good look at yourself."
May God Bless You, and illuminate those areas in your life that you don't realize are surrounded in darkness.

[CoolColleen]

Thanks for both of your advice I naturally attach important people because of my heart and mature and work

I will not openly share my connections no more.


Remember any evil person can and have start band wagons on people they are jealous off. So remember just because a lot of people are calling you a name doesn't mean you should change because there is something wrong with you

Maybe a jealous person start a band wagon

I have look at myself I will only change one thing my willing to share my projects with individuals who don't have a thing to do with them and my connections will be more to myself.

Again thanks