[Holi89]

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years, he used to be very romantic with me the first two years and even gave me a pre compromise ring. Since our 3 years together he started to change and always seems to be mad at me,whenever we go to do groceries together he always gets mad at me saying that he always wastes his time doing groceries with me and that he has to study. Then when he gets to his apartment he doesn't study and starts chatting with his friends. Whenever we go out he always seems mad and when I try to cheer him up, he just stays very serious and says he is tired. He never smiles when we are together now,but when he goes out with his friends he always seems to have fun and writes on Facebook about the great time they spent together.

Even though he is always serious I always say cute things to him and smile,but it never seems to make him happy. I tried asking him and he says that he doesn't not like compromises and likes to be alone. I am always very lovable and romantic with him but he he is not like that with me.

[adviceishere]

I tried asking him and he says that he doesn't not like compromises and likes to be alone

That's your answer right there... dump him! He has no room for compromsing so that just means you either put up or put out, your choice, he sounds like miserable git! Keep going out with him and you will end up the same miserable git as him, his moods will rub off you and you sound like a nice bubbly girl.

I know its easier said than done but your choices are simple... keep going with the way things are and feel like this forever or be single and maybe sad for a little while and than back to happy!

[amicon]

He's not putting any effort into the relationship and he wants to be alone.

Do what he is too much of a coward to be doing-end it.

Sometimes a relationship just runs its course,and you'd be better off letting this go now rather than keep trying to reheat an old soufflé for another year or longer.

[Devorameira]

I agree with Amicon... he's just not willing to put any effort into the relationship, so it doesn't have a chance.

The best thing you can do is break up with him and move on. Sure it'll be tough, but eventually you're going to find someone who actually cares enough to put some effort into making the relationship work.

[talaniman]

You either build a life that makes you happy with him, or without him, and its your choice. You have enough facts to make a good decision for yourself, if you don't let YOUR feelings blind you to those facts.