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    Mar 21, 2011, 04:32 AM
    Cheating boyfriend?
    I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. After dating for a few months I caught him texting his ex-girlfriend, we had a fight about it and he hasn't done it again. It now almost 2 years later and I find him texting another girl. I don't know whay he's doing this because everything has been going great, he always tells me he loves me and wants to see me all the time. What should I do?
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    Mar 21, 2011, 05:21 AM

    So he keeps doing this and you really don't know if it has been going on behind your back for a while.

    You need an honest answer from him what the h**k is going on.

    He may tell you he loves you,but his actions speak a different language.
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    Mar 21, 2011, 09:39 AM

    If you both can't agree on the boundaries of good behavior, then you don't need this relationship.
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    Mar 21, 2011, 01:58 PM
    Curious, what are the texts about? What is it about the texts that make you write it off as cheating?

    ---although, texting the ex is pretty crappy,
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    Mar 22, 2011, 02:46 AM
    He's texting them about meeting up and then texting his friends about it, he text one of his friends saying 'just trying to get a bit of caitlin on the scene but shhhh'
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    Mar 22, 2011, 03:10 AM

    He's texting other girls about meeting up with them?

    Last time I checked,that's looking to cheat.

    I think it's time you walked away from this.

    I smell a rat!
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    Mar 22, 2011, 06:45 AM

    If he's texting about meeting up with other women, I think it's time you face the music and move on.

    You deserve a lot better than you're getting.
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    Mar 22, 2011, 09:22 AM
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    I would get rid of this guy quick. Only bad news. He doesn't seem very mature.
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    Mar 22, 2011, 11:07 AM
    Leave him its not even worth it... once a cheater always a cheater
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    Mar 22, 2011, 09:57 PM
    Even I'm in thhis situation.. But Having faithh is much needed in this case.. Put yourself in this position.. U Hav loved some one before,but you brokeup with him/her for some reasons.One day he is coming and talking to you.. Can you avoid him/her?
    U Have loved him bcoz you liked him,his actions,Attitude.
    How can you hate him suddenly..
    U Can never avoid a person whomm you loved bfore.. Instead you will try to stop thinking about him/her by loving another person..
    This is life..

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