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    SouthernBelle06 Posts: 166, Reputation: 83
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    #61

    Jan 31, 2007, 06:16 AM
    Also, as long as she keeps accepting dates from you when you ask and doesn't start disappearing or repeatedly making excuses not to see you, I think you are on the right track.:)
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    #62

    Jan 31, 2007, 06:52 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by PatBateman
    I've been seeing this girl I met on Match.com for a few weeks now. We talked a few times, met up in person for the first time last weekend, and today I saw her for the second time. The first time we went out for sushi and we had alot of fun. It was short, but sweet and interesting. Aside from a hug good bye, I didn't do anything else.

    So today, we ended up walking around this street with all these shops and stuff but didn't go in anywhere. I asked her if she wanted to go ice skating but she said she hates it because when she was 12 she tore her quads after a bad fall...lol. So I stopped pushing it and we had some coffee and called it a night after 2 hours of walking and talking because she said she had some work to finish for tomorrow morning for one of her ad clients. (She's a director at a marketing firm)

    I walked her back to her car and she drove me back to mine and then followed me because she didn't know her way back from where we were. Because of the way we left, we couldn't really do formal goodbyes...so no hugs this time.

    The thing that sucked about today was that I had no chance to get physical with her. It was purely a "hanging out" type date and aside from rubbing her back for a few seconds because she said she was cold, that was all I did. I wanted to give her a kiss goodnight but it would have been wierd in the car.

    I think she's warming up to me more because I mean, she drove an hour plus just to walk around with me on a day's notice...lol. I just wish she'd put her arms around me or whatever or at least show me some signs she wants to get hit on...lol. I'm a shy guy and usually am really respectful so I was afraid of just grabbing her hand or waist, which would have been wierd anyways.

    I wish we went skating...that would have been a cakewalk.

    Do you all think I should have been more aggressive?
    Don't get mean aggressive. Why don't u take her to a movie and maybe put your harm around her or just slowlly move your hand into hers. Put a footforward because honestly she may not know what to do just like you she maybe shy put in mind you guys just meat each other. :cool:
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    #63

    Jan 31, 2007, 07:06 AM
    Go slow Pat, and its easier to walk with your arm around her shoulder:D
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    Feb 1, 2007, 01:15 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by PatBateman
    I've been seeing this girl I met on Match.com for a few weeks now. We talked a few times, met up in person for the first time last weekend, and today I saw her for the second time. The first time we went out for sushi and we had alot of fun. It was short, but sweet and interesting. Aside from a hug good bye, I didn't do anything else.

    So today, we ended up walking around this street with all these shops and stuff but didn't go in anywhere. I asked her if she wanted to go ice skating but she said she hates it because when she was 12 she tore her quads after a bad fall...lol. So I stopped pushing it and we had some coffee and called it a night after 2 hours of walking and talking because she said she had some work to finish for tomorrow morning for one of her ad clients. (She's a director at a marketing firm)

    I walked her back to her car and she drove me back to mine and then followed me because she didn't know her way back from where we were. Because of the way we left, we couldn't really do formal goodbyes...so no hugs this time.

    The thing that sucked about today was that I had no chance to get physical with her. It was purely a "hanging out" type date and aside from rubbing her back for a few seconds because she said she was cold, that was all I did. I wanted to give her a kiss goodnight but it would have been wierd in the car.

    I think she's warming up to me more because I mean, she drove an hour plus just to walk around with me on a day's notice...lol. I just wish she'd put her arms around me or whatever or at least show me some signs she wants to get hit on...lol. I'm a shy guy and usually am really respectful so I was afraid of just grabbing her hand or waist, which would have been wierd anyways.

    I wish we went skating...that would have been a cakewalk.

    Do you all think I should have been more aggressive?
    I think the next time you guys meet up it would be good to take her by the hand. By looking into her eyes you may know if she wants a kiss or not. You definatley don'ty want to move to fast but definatley show her that your interested
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    #65

    Feb 1, 2007, 01:25 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by PatBateman
    I've been seeing this girl I met on Match.com for a few weeks now. We talked a few times, met up in person for the first time last weekend, and today I saw her for the second time. The first time we went out for sushi and we had alot of fun. It was short, but sweet and interesting. Aside from a hug good bye, I didn't do anything else.

    So today, we ended up walking around this street with all these shops and stuff but didn't go in anywhere. I asked her if she wanted to go ice skating but she said she hates it because when she was 12 she tore her quads after a bad fall...lol. So I stopped pushing it and we had some coffee and called it a night after 2 hours of walking and talking because she said she had some work to finish for tomorrow morning for one of her ad clients. (She's a director at a marketing firm)

    I walked her back to her car and she drove me back to mine and then followed me because she didn't know her way back from where we were. Because of the way we left, we couldn't really do formal goodbyes...so no hugs this time.

    The thing that sucked about today was that I had no chance to get physical with her. It was purely a "hanging out" type date and aside from rubbing her back for a few seconds because she said she was cold, that was all I did. I wanted to give her a kiss goodnight but it would have been wierd in the car.

    I think she's warming up to me more because I mean, she drove an hour plus just to walk around with me on a day's notice...lol. I just wish she'd put her arms around me or whatever or at least show me some signs she wants to get hit on...lol. I'm a shy guy and usually am really respectful so I was afraid of just grabbing her hand or waist, which would have been wierd anyways.

    I wish we went skating...that would have been a cakewalk.

    Do you all think I should have been more aggressive?
    You've only been out with her twice and she does seem to like you, you just both seemed to be at a loose end as in what to do! Next time you ask her out, why don't you invite her out for a nice meal, somewhere where you can both talk more, get to know one another better with a nice atmosphere. If you have your own place you could tell her beforehand she could stay at your house - in the spare room of course - and see what she says.

    If you do go for dinner, then be the perfect gentleman with her and DON'T sleep with her too soon, kiss her yes, but hold back from doing anything else until you've been with her longer.

    Eve
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    Feb 1, 2007, 03:56 PM
    The thing that people forget and get caught up in, is there is pleny of time for everything, there is no reason to hurry at all and the slower you go the more you find out and get comfortable with. As you learnabout people then you can tell when the right time is for anything and end a lot of speculation and PANIC.
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    Jun 3, 2009, 02:05 AM
    Hii

    Actually I'm going to meet a girl whom I have been talking to online from last 2 years 4 months

    Can some one suggest me what gift shall I give her I'm very confused:(

    Can you help me guys:)

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