[davidrp61]

I know I ask this before.but I would love to hear from women on what I did too.I got some good replies and need more to send them to her so she may think twice.not looking for certain answers any is all I want and a lot of them.
I been with the woman I love for 3.5 years.lived together for 2.5years. She has an issue with trusting me.she says she sees me gawking @ young girls,little white lies I have told.example she wanted me to send my son to camp.I told her I didn't have the money.1 month later she realized I had money in my savings.that was for emergency and to buy our home together.junk in her e-mail,like I was signing up for porn stuff in her account.after she left me I told her I took a lot of pain killers and beer to get her to come back. But when I was at work she came over and found I didn't take all the pain pills like I told her.I was hoping she would feel sorry for me.. so now I'm not honest and deceiving.
One morning her best friend called me @work one morning and thought my girlfriend. Was mad at her.then she started complaining about her marriage.and telling me all about the fighting and arguing.
She then said how happy my girlfriend and I look,always going out etc.she wishes her marriage was like our relationship.I told her every relationship has problems that's what makes kiss and makeup fun.I told her that we to have our problems and told her about an incident which my girlfriend broke my new lcd TV because I wasted 10.00 on a yard sign off a school cheerleader.
I told her friend what you do when you love someone is you forgive them.and that's what I did I forgive the woman I love so much.my girlfriend. Did replace the tvt and cried and said she's sorry.I felt terrible she had to spend 1300.00 for another TV.so I told her when the new TV arrived I will send back the one you broke saying it came broke.they did send us another TV.now she mad at me for committing fraud getting her a new TV .
Since then her best friend and my girlfriend got into a fight and she told my girlfriend what I told her about the TV.and some other lies.
I was trying to show her friend this is what you do when you love someone you forgive them.my girlfriend. Thinks her girlfriend.and I was having a pitty party an emotional affair.now my girlfriend moved out and is mad as hell at me.
She's seeing someone else she and wants her space.I haven't slept in 7 weeks she says there just friends.she told me she don't trust me.all I was trying to do was help get my girlfriend. And her friend back together and now I lost the one I love so much.
Was it wrong for me to tell her friend about an incident in our relationship?is this really relationship ending?I was not talking about my girlfriend behind her back.you don't do that to someone you love.I wish she would trust me.I never ever intended to hurt her.I want her back in my life so bad.I need honest answers so I can forward this question to her.need answers for men and women... thank everybody
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[talaniman]

You have started 5 threads saying the same thing, All your post will be reviewed and merged. You need to think very seriously on the course your on sir and find a better path.

[K_3]

I have not read any of your other posts so I will answer this one. I had a hard time following it actually, as you did not complete some sentences or thoughts. I will try. As far as her being jealous of you looking at other women. Only you know just how "gawkingly" you look, Every man is going to look, when you are with someone it is rude to make it obvious. It sounds as if you are not always truthful. You may think they are only white lies, they are lies. To lie about the TV was bad. If she got mad enough to break a TV she needed to buy a new one. To lie to a company and say it was broken is not a moral and honorable thing to do. You may look at it as saving her money, it is wrong. I have to tell you, I do not like to be around someone who lies, I begin to wonder what is true and what is not. I stay away from them. If I want stories told to me, I will read a fiction book and then I know it is untrue.
I do not know if you can salvage your relationship with her, you need to be honest with her and everyone before you start in a new relationship. I really do not think the big issue with her was you telling her friend about your issues. I think it was the last straw. When you are not a truthful person, you are not going to be trusted. You can justify all day long why you lied, but the fact is "you lied".

[momincali]

You are a very dishonest and deceiving person. You were lucky that your girlfriend stood with you this long. She is different than you. Leave her alone. If you really love her, leave her alone. Work on yourself.