I have been married 35 years and its far from perfect, but through honest communications we deal with the stuff that makes us mad at each other. Its okay to be mad with our partners habits, how you deal with them is what counts.
It really sounds as this wedding gets closer, you are afraid to risk your future. That's okay to, as long as you are honest about your fears, and deal with them. Actually, we all have those fears before we get married, its normal, just don't let them shake your hope, and confidence in what you want to do.
Communicate with your partner, and through those communications work together to build a life you want.
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