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fireballer7777 · Feb 23, 2011, 11:01 AM

Me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 3 months now but she just started liking my friend I asked her 0 out of 10 how much do you like him she told me she only likes him a 5 then I asked her how much she likes me she said 8 my friend that my girlfriend likes he likes her too she said she doesn't love him but she loves me I'm a really good boyfriend I do everything I possibly can to make her happy I mean EVERYTHING! What should I do? Please help. She also tells me not to worry.

adviceishere · Feb 23, 2011, 12:17 PM

You should read over what you typed out because it gets really jumbled up in the middle and I can't make out what your saying... also how old are you?

Wondergirl · Feb 23, 2011, 12:25 PM

What should you do about what?

talaniman · Feb 23, 2011, 01:53 PM

Find better things to talk about.

fireballer7777 · Feb 23, 2011, 02:43 PM

16 and sorry

Like I don't know how should I react to this and should I just forget about it and act like its normal?

Wondergirl · Feb 23, 2011, 03:06 PM

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like idk how should i react to this and should i just forget about it and act like its normal?

Reacting -- so you don't want her to have any male friends? If she does, you will always make her rate them up against how she feels about you?

Why does that make me think you have a self esteem problem?

Do you think it's normal for a girl to give up all her male friends when she has a boyfriend? I don't think so. In fact, if she has lots of male friends, that should make her boyfriend very proud of her.

Susan Lucci is on a soap opera and has had eight soap husbands. Her real-life husband was asked if he is jealous of all those men. He said, "Not at all. I'm the one she loves."

fireballer7777 · Feb 23, 2011, 03:24 PM

Thank you it helps and no I don't have self esteem problems and its fine to have friends.. I asked her if she likes him more than a friend and she said yes.. there's other stuff to but thanks for your help

Wondergirl · Feb 23, 2011, 03:28 PM

I suggest you stop asking her questions like that. It makes you sound needy.

ISneezeFunny · Feb 23, 2011, 03:30 PM

... *sigh*... if I knew back in high school what I know now.

To the OP... girls are... illogical. They don't reason well. (sorry to the females, but it's true... your brain is wired differently.

Quit judging about what she says, and think upon how she acts. Does she act as if she cares about you, does she put you in front of other guys when it comes down to it?

If so, don't worry about it.

Also, stop with this, "I don't want her to leave and so I'm doing everything I can to stop her." You'll eventually realize that doing THAT, actually DOES make her leave.

In high school, between couples, it's a cat and mouse game. It's always a chase. If you free yourself a little bit, make time for yourself and your friends, she'll appreciate you even more when she actually DOES see you. I don't mean for you to IGNORE her, but do things for yourself from time to time. You'll feel better about it too.

fireballer7777 · Mar 12, 2011, 08:18 AM

Threads merged

My girlfriend moved to another city I'm really upset because I'm never going to get to see her again all we can do is text and call each other I love her so much we have been together 3months what do I do?

ironhide262 · Mar 12, 2011, 08:41 AM

Well, not much you can do , other than keep in touch. I'm sure you know things will dramatically change and you will be, at the most, a long distance friend. But, hey, don't freak out about it... these things happen in life and it's not the end of the world. You had 3 great months together and she's in the same boat as you now... just be a good friend and perhaps your paths will cross again one day.
I'm guessing you are rather young... you have lots to look forward to if you have the right attitude!

fireballer7777 · Mar 12, 2011, 09:05 AM

I really appreciate this honestly that makes me feel a little better knowing there's hope after all

adviceishere · Mar 12, 2011, 09:10 AM

Of course there's hope man, and there are loads of other ways to keep in touch too, letters are a great way to keep the romance going and there's skype also if you both have webcams. And when or if your old enough you can surely visit each other.

Yeahbuddie321 · Nov 1, 2011, 09:45 PM

Bro I think it would be best to move on personally I understand how it could hurt a lot but their's not much you can do there's nothing wrong with being friends but I think it's a sign to move on