[ivanilyich]

So she sits a few seats ahead of me in class. I can't stop thinking about her all day and whenever she talks to me or says something or even looks my way it feels like my heart is stuck on a beat and it feels wiggly in my stomach and sensitive in my abdominal area? Like even today when I helped her with something in class and she quietly mouthed "thank you" (so the teacher wouldn't hear) - I stared at her lips move and it felt like it was in slow motion - lasting forever and it was like amazing... Ew, I feel weird thinking about this but I just can't stop thinking about her. Every time we talk (very few times) or when she giggles at something I say it just feels... (it's indescribable?) I know this is crazy and stupid - how do I get rid of this? :-/ I've never really felt like this or anything before and I don't like it! I'm 17 by the way.

[ken007nielsen]

Minor crush?
(ive never tried slowmotion, but hey whatever rocks your boat :)

I'd say try asking her out, see if you two can become a couple since it's obvious your into her.

You want her, or do you want to stop having feelings for her?

[Fr_Chuck]

Why make it stop, but basically you don't. It may be something that you can't even remember in 5 years. Or still a wonderful memory after 40 years. I have a few wonderful memories of a crush or two from 40 years ago, nothing wrong with it.

[Trueblu]

That's not unusual for a 17 year old. It's normal. Just be yourself and don't get overwhelmed about a girl who is just that--- a girl. She is human by the way and may one day do something that will change your opinion of her. It will wear off my friend. It's a feeling that every young man gets when he sees a pretty girl who he sees as incredible. It not crazy or stupid. It will wear off soon. If it gets to be overwhelming get something else to occupy you time so you don't have to deal w/ it. Hope this helps.