[SmartyPants1]

Hi I need some help please last night I spent the night at a friends and we were fighting and we suddenly heard noise twice and my friend saw a black shadow figure along the wall where the noise was coming from, this isn't the first time I have experienced this I feel I am being tormented. I know I shouldn't be scared as a Christian, but can I alone fight these possible attacks. What does this mean? Please help me. :(

[JudyKayTee]

If you believe you are being tormented or haunted and you are Christian you need to speak to a Christian clergyman.

[SmartyPants1]

Thank you I will, my friend is mormon do they believe in this? I am not. But I am going to be ending the friendship because we are on different spiritual levels.

[Wondergirl]

Why would you end a friendship because of being on different spiritual levels? As you go through life, you will meet and even befriend many people who are on different levels and paths than you are.

You mentioned "attacks." Have you actually been attacked?

Yes, the Mormons would take something like this seriously.

[JudyKayTee]

Right, part of the joy of friendship is NOT being alike, learning something new from someone, appreciating their values and knowledge.

[SmartyPants1]

Well I have higher standards than him I am not trying to be self righteous because I am not I try to live as the word of God instructs, he doesn't seem to be care or take it too seriously. I just feel I am opening myself up to negativity.

[Wondergirl]

Or perhaps you will be the instrument for bringing him into a sphere of positivity. Jesus himself dined with sinners.

[lil_blue]

Something Similar happened with my boyfriend, It only did it to get attention. Don't go "summoning" the spirit, but the next time you see it, just ask why it's there and talk to it. It seems crazy, and its scary, but with my boyfriend's ghost, He talked to it, and answered its questions the best he could, told it that it would be better if he moved on, and it left happily with a thank you. It's worth a try for you. There's a lot more to it than that. And I have helped people with their own spiritual encounters.

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[SmartyPants1]

I thought of that I really did, I have been praying about it, maybe I am looking at it and handling it wrong. I just have tried but he seems to just reject it all the time, I don't know how long to continue , if its not working. And trying to make the wisest decision

[SmartyPants1]

Well I was taught not to make communication, by any means, I think I know why it is there, but have contacted a great site that deals with this and they seem to think it's a demon the lowest form one of my friends thinks it could get worse if we don't get rid of it asap, he has been hearing it since for the past few days we have looked into it and he bought sage sticks and I heard sea salt, and olive oil help I think something else I just forgot atm. We have been burning it in the room but they say the whole house has to be cleansed or it won't leave. And we should pray. So ill be updating . Thanks for the comments.

[SmartyPants1]

There is a heavy feeling, it makes me want to cry, and I feel like short of breath and like its crushing me, he mentioned it feels like something is crushing him.

[JudyKayTee]

And did you consult with a clergyman?

[SmartyPants1]

Yes I did but I don't believe he believes me. I consulted with a paranormal website they seem to be helping me more