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    Jan 13, 2011, 11:03 PM
    Do you share all of your past experiences in your current relationship?
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    Jan 13, 2011, 11:16 PM

    Not all. My past is my past, it happened before my husband and I were together. Unless it's something that can hurt him, like an STD, or a psychotic Ex, then there's really no reason to share everything unless you want to.

    I am very honest with my husband, but he doesn't know everything, nor do I know everything about his past.

    Why are you asking?
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    Jan 14, 2011, 12:57 AM
    I would stay out of the past as much as possible.

    I was a different person with an entirely different lifestyle.

    Much would be misunderstood now.
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    Jan 17, 2011, 01:17 AM
    Yes I usually do
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    Jan 17, 2011, 01:21 AM
    I would not see any harm is sharing the past with someone. If they ask me I will be honest with them, I don't feel ashamed of my past.
    I do expect the other person to be honest with me if they are very curious about my past, or want to find out more
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    Jan 17, 2011, 01:23 AM

    I have no past to share. Neither does he.
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