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    Jan 12, 2011, 10:36 PM
    I'm 29 and married for the past 15 years for the past week I've been so horny
    Is there something wrong with me?
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    Jan 13, 2011, 06:36 AM

    You married at 14?
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    Jan 13, 2011, 06:50 AM

    Married people want sex also ? So why should you not be?
    Hope you were many times during 15 years of marriage
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    Jan 13, 2011, 07:32 AM
    [QUOTE]Q:I'm 29 and married for the past 15 years for the past week I've been so horny[/QUOTE

    This sheds some light on your other post.

    Relax, and go slowly.
    This applies to the decision and the act itself
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    Jan 13, 2011, 08:00 AM
    ERROR: You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to martinizing2 again.
    Well spotted Martiniz - might not be the time to push limits if you are worried your libido is uncharacteristically high. Make sure you feel OK about yourself first.


    I've been married for 25 years and horny for about 30 years.
    Thank the universe for marriage!
    Is it actually causing you problems?
    Is your hubby's libido lower than yours?
    Are you able to distract yourself from it until a time when you can indulge your desires?
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    Jan 13, 2011, 08:54 AM

    No honey, I don't think there is anything wrong with you. You and I are around the same age and I feel it too on a regular basis.

    You might be hitting your peak, which usually happens around 30+ for women.

    Let me ask you, were you having these feelings before this past week? I would hope so...

    All I can say, is you're human, so take that tension out on your Husband. He may like it. Lol
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    Jan 13, 2011, 09:35 AM
    No problems. My hubby is 35, and I think the only thing is that my hubby looks at me like if I was crazy or something. He says he is not superman... but I guess that what is getting me worried is that he is telling me no. later, and before he was the one asking me. He was always up for it, could it be that his libido went down. I don't know what to think any more.
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    Jan 13, 2011, 09:49 AM

    As Enigma says you're probably at your peak. Guess your hubby is a little past his peak now. So your libido is rising whilst his may be falling a little. Perhaps his ego is feeling a little bruised if he feels he 'can't keep up'.

    Maybe some of the new things you are contemplating trying would give him a little extra pep - as long as it's something you genuienly want to try and he is also happy with.

    You guys just need to accept the newer status quo without blaming one another since your sex drives crossing over is perfectly normal. Accept that he may not have as high a sex drive as you now and that doen't mean there is anything wrong with either of you, nor that he has suddenly stopped finding you attractive.

    Compromise, and communicate without putting pressure or blame on one another.
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    Jan 13, 2011, 11:34 AM
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    So will my drive drop after I past my 30's? At what age are men at their peak?
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    Jan 13, 2011, 11:47 AM

    Men hit their peak at birth. Lol seriously though, men usually hit it in their teens.

    Everyone is different. Like I said before, I am around your age, and I hit mine a couple of years ago and still going strong.
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    Jan 13, 2011, 01:04 PM

    I'm 48 and it's not declining yet...
    The good thing is hubby is getting too old to run away:p
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    Jan 13, 2011, 01:16 PM

    I'm 49 and never ran away... YET.
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    Jan 13, 2011, 01:16 PM
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    That's funny thanks
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    Jan 21, 2011, 04:33 PM
    Just happened on this post and I see it's a little late BUT, my wife is 68, I'm almost 70 and believe me, "I get by with a little help from my friends" Cialis & Levitra. WOOHOO!
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    Jan 21, 2011, 04:34 PM
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    PS, Married 45 years in June.

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