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    normierich Posts: 17, Reputation: 4
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    Oct 17, 2010, 08:20 PM
    Why can't I stay hard
    I'm fifty years old and lately I don't seemed turned on by my wife. I love her very much and up to now we've had a pretty good (although predictable) sex life. In the last few weeks, I've been finding it very difficult to have intercourse because I'm just not aroused as I used to be and I can't get and/or maintain an erection. I still masturbate, I still get aroused looking at other women but for some reason lately, my isn't turning me on although she does try. Please help!
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    Oct 17, 2010, 10:34 PM
    Sounds like you're just getting bored. You and her try spicing it up a bit if you haven't already. Roll play, try having sex in the kitchen or multiple rooms of the house, some place different from the norm. Maybe try playing dress up like a nurse or something. You may also want to contact your doctor if none of these work. You might be getting to the point where that little blue pill is just all that will help. I hope you have more luck in the near future.
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    Oct 18, 2010, 01:36 PM
    Try new lingre
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    smoothy Posts: 25,492, Reputation: 2853
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    Oct 19, 2010, 10:26 AM

    Look, you are Fifty and things start to happen as you get up in age.

    #1. Get a complete physical... the Old soldier isn't going to get his job done without the support of a lot of others. Meaning any one or a combination of medical issues can cause ED. So can certain medications... Talke with your doctor. This can be an early symptom of something not yet diagnosed.

    #2. You could have a low hormone issue (testosterone)... it does eventually effect most men.


    Find out of the purple pill will help when you are at your doctors.

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