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    welshboy26 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 17, 2010, 04:45 PM
    Is he gay or bi?
    I have been seeing a guy now for 2 months and as far as I'm aware is gay. Have heard and been tgold by him that he "copped off" with a girl a couple of times around 4 years ago... once just kissed when pissed and other time kissed and had oral sex... he says he is gay and was one off which he wants to forget about now as it didn't mean anything, they just had an attraction! I have been giving him a hard time about it all ad he just wants to forget it and move on as it's in the past! I love him and he says he loves me too... I just feel a bit jealous and confused about it all! What do u all think?
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    Oct 17, 2010, 05:14 PM

    I think he's asked you to drop it, and you not doing so is completely disrespectful.

    I also think that if you love him, you should TRUST what he says about it.

    If you keep nagging him about it and don't let it go as a part of his past, you're going to push him away.
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    Oct 17, 2010, 05:30 PM

    Why are you jealous of something that happened 4 years ago--is she still around? If not, there is really nothing to be jealous of.
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    Nov 4, 2010, 02:10 PM
    I don't see why this is a problem for you. Are you two a couple or just close friends?
    If you guys are a unit it shouldn't matter as long as he is attracted to you.
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