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    jessiesamra Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 5, 2010, 09:51 AM
    I've been given two chances,blew them both how can I prove that I won't this time?
    I lied to my boyfriend but about the smallest thing and he took me back,I then lied again he took me back,this time I haven't really lied I told him the truth buh he doesn't seem to see it,I want to prove to him that I'm not the person he thinks I am. He said that I was perfect but it was the lies that messed us up,I've been with him for nearly 8months but we realli are crazy about each other and we clearly can't livbee without each other,buh he's a stubborn guy I just want him to realise that I love him so much and that I twon't happen again but is it too late? If not how can I show him that I've changed? :(
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    Jul 5, 2010, 10:36 AM

    What did you lie about?
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    Jul 5, 2010, 10:43 AM

    I don't think it's about him being stubborn. It's more about your lies and breaking his trust for you.

    He took you back twice already, but that doesn't mean that you can abuse his trust.

    You're right, you do have to earn his trust back. The first thing you can do is stop blaming him for being stubborn. Had you not lied the first two times, you won't have this problem. Be an adult. Take responsibility for your actions.

    Accept the fact that you're going to need to be patient when trying to regain his trust. Continue to work together to work towards a common goal. Stop seeing him as an opponent.
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    Jul 5, 2010, 11:14 AM

    Stop lying, and hope he forgives you. If not, accept that you blew it yet again.
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    Jul 5, 2010, 09:46 PM
    Just what kind of lies are you talking about. Did you lie about saying you wanted to shingle the roof, or did you lie about offering to change the oil in his car?

    Or was it more serious. Maybe you lied about sleeping around? Spending your paycheque at the Casino?

    The nature and context of the lies would make it a lot easier to judge whether you have to beg for forgiveness.
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