[GoW]

My girlfriend juste broke up with me with the reason that she had lots of problem in her family and I can't imagine that could be the end because I liked her a lot and I don't know what to do plzz help! :confused:

[talaniman]

She has other things on her mind besides you, so leave her alone, and let her deal with her own problems, without you putting extra pressure on her. I get how you feel, but try and understand how she feels.

[shenda]

As a woman, I relate to your girlfriend... when you have in your mind images of what a relationship should look like, the responsibility, accountability of my part in it. If I do not feel that I can be fair to the gentleman, I do not desire to be selfish and put his life on hold, worse yet to take him on the merry-go-around in my emotions. It is just easier to let him go so that he can find someone willing and available to enjoy all aspects of the relationship. Understand that she may have wanted the relationship but family pressures can make one decide, I can't handle a relationship right now. If you like her so, and if she is willing, she may rec'v you as a friend, but be honest with yourself... can you handle being a mere friend.

[Negativecreep0]

If you really are close with her, I would think that you guys would remain close just back off don't grill her every time you talkto her, be a close friend now, eventually when she is ready and things with her family relax, she will be ready and turn to you who is closest to her...