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    Jun 10, 2010, 07:50 PM
    Feel comfortable around your boyfriend
    I have this thing where I make myself really nervous around my boyfriends. It started when I dated someone years ago and we had no connection and I always felt weird around him (I think it was due to age difference, I was 17 he was 21). After that I had a boyfriend and we were I felt so entirely comfortable around him I could do anything and I felt totally fine (however, I was still getting over my ex which was the one who I felt uncomfortable with). Well me and that boyfriend broke up. I've been with two different people after that. And now I've developed this thing in my mind on "what if" I don't feel comfortable with my boyfriend?" and it makes me nervous and cautious of what I do. My boyfriend I've been with now we've been together for six months. I love him more than anything and we talk about getting married and I can't see myself with anyone else. However, we are great together but it's still in my mind and I worry about being comfortable with him. How do I try to rid these thoughts? Ex. If we go to a concert together, I'm afraid to be all crazy and jumpy and sing out loud for the sake of him thinking I'm stupid or weird although I know he totally loves me. I get worried in the car. I'm so sorry this is long.
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    Jun 10, 2010, 09:43 PM

    “Be Who You Are and Say What You Feel Because Those Who Mind Don't Matter and Those Who Matter Don't Mind.”
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    Jun 10, 2010, 11:57 PM

    Awe, just what I needed!
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    Jun 11, 2010, 05:33 AM

    If you can't be yourself, what the point in even being together??
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    Sep 12, 2010, 07:34 AM
    Its hard to just be yourself I mean if you love your guy like I do and I've grown to be very comfortable around him but he's not comfortable around me which I'm working on cause I want to spend forever with him!!

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