The only way you know if they are the one, is when you get old, and they are still there, and your still happy about it.
That spark is highly over rated, as sometimes it gets hidden by the realities of life, and you can't see it. No one thinks about a spark when the rent has to be paid and the car is broken down, or the dog ate your favorite shoes.
You will know when you have the one because whether the spark is there are not, your actions are about the love you feel that makes you both work very hard to keep it going.
Being in love is one of many feelings, but loving someone is about a lot of work, and experiences, both good, and bad. No matter how bad, you still keep working.
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