Need a Quick Reply, Please
Hello,
I'll appreciate an answer if possible, ASAP.
I live in my family home. I've been back here raising my family for the last 17 years. My neighbor, Noni, is the same lady who lived next door since my folks and family moved in in 1961. I've known and loved her since I was 5 years old.
Noni's children are giving her a 90th birthday party for her on Dec. 26th at a fancy (expensive) local restaurant.
When I last visited with her she asked if I was coming to her birthday party. I replied, '"Am I invited?" She said, "I don't know, I'm not the one planning it." Her caregiver then said, "Yes, you are, I know you are."
Well, I've not received an invitation or any notification of the details.
My best friend, Annie, her youngest, who lives out of the area and is not involved in the planning, told me of the details. Up until yesterday, I did not tell her of my conversation with her mom. I've asked her not to say anything.
QUESTION~~~Now... do I ask Noni's oldest son or daughter if it's OK for my husband and I to drop in at the restaurant for a few minutes?
Or, could I ask to go 'Dutch'?
Or, ask the caregiver what happened?
Or, do I bite the bullet, do nothing and miss this lovely opportunity to honor a very dear woman whom I think of as a second mom?
I surely appreciate your help!
Many thanks and blessings.
From,
Kim
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