Originally Posted by
usernameguy
yeah, that's kinda what i had in mind. at this point it hasnt become a problem and i'm not desperate for an orgasm. my focus is mostly on her and its just as satisfying knowing that she climaxes. I thought i'd research the issue before it does potentially becomes a problem while it's still early in the relationship so that i could talk about it when/if necessary.
thanks for the insight. it's a great help.
Chances are, and it isn't uncommon with men, you're using the grip 'o death on your penis. If you are, loosen up a little. Make sure your thumb doesn't go past your middle finger when you're masturbating. It will retrain yourself to a lighter touch. Either way you're going to need to retrain yourself to accept the different stimulation. I wouldn't cut out masturbation completely, but I would tone it down to once every two days at most, maybe once every three.
The other thing that tweaked me here is that you're only concerned with her pleasure and her climaxing. Sex is a mutual act, you should also be concerned with your enjoyment and your climax. Which follows that she should be concerned with the same. It needs to be a balance. It sounds a little one sided at this point. It could cause some issue later on in the relationship.
My two cents.