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May 16, 2010, 04:49 PM
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A question for the guys
Would you find it creepy and weird if a girl were to ask you out?
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Ultra Member
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May 16, 2010, 04:55 PM
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Definitely not , in fact I'd find it to be a compliment.
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May 16, 2010, 04:56 PM
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Originally Posted by friend4u178
Definately not , in fact I'd find it to be a compliment.
I've never asked a guy out before. It's always been the other way around. I don't want to come off as desperate or a stalker.
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Ultra Member
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May 16, 2010, 05:01 PM
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You know some people have the perception that the guy always has to do the asking , not true in this day and age.
Guys have to go through the same emotions when thinking about asking girls out , and many miss the boat for fear of rejection.
Go for it , what have you got to lose?
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Ultra Member
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May 16, 2010, 05:04 PM
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I did ask him and he said yes. I just don't know what runs through a guy's head when a girl asks him out.
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Ultra Member
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May 16, 2010, 05:06 PM
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Originally Posted by bEaUtIfUlbRuNeTtE
I did ask him and he said yes. I just don't know what runs through a guy's head when a girl asks him out.
Good for you , I'm sure he'd feel exactly like you would if he'd asked you out and you said yes.
Good Luck with it :)
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Jobs & Parenting Expert
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May 16, 2010, 05:19 PM
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From what I've seen and experienced, things would move along a lot faster if girls asked out the guys.
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Ultra Member
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May 16, 2010, 05:44 PM
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When I was single, I was asked out several times. I always said yes, unless she was just not my type. Then I said that I was attached. I thought of it as a compliment.
Go enjoy yourself.
Good luck.
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Uber Member
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May 16, 2010, 08:51 PM
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Hi, bEaUtIfUlbRuNeTtE!
I wouldn't think of it as being creepy and weird. It could be an opportunity to meet and go out with someone who might be just the "right" person, for any number of reasons.
However, if it was noticed by others as well as myself, that the woman had just recently broken up with another man, and was appearing to be "chasing" after me, then I would definitely be keeping my guard up so that neither of would be likely to be hurt emotionally in some way.
Thanks!
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Expert
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May 17, 2010, 09:52 AM
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I think its flattering myself. My wife doesn't like it a bit though. :eek:
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New Member
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May 17, 2010, 10:57 AM
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Uhmm well it depends really, I mean if I know you and I have known you for a while now then NO not at all.. but if I'm just walking in the mall and I don't know you then you a little
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Family & People Expert
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May 17, 2010, 11:07 AM
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Even if he doesn't have the same feelings, he'll still be flattered. It's definitely a huge ego booster nor matter what.
If he does like you back, he'll be estatic, cause the person he likes feels the same way. It's like hitting a jackpot!
But you don't need to worry so much, he said yes, so go out and have fun! Hopefully you will have more confidence asking a guy out in the future.
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May 17, 2010, 04:03 PM
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I would love it since I'm very shy :S
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Junior Member
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May 17, 2010, 04:05 PM
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IM a girl but I felt like answering this! What if the guy you like hasn't asked you out because he's nervous or feels the same way you do.. like you'll think he's a weird stalker.. lol... Just because guys usually do the asking out doesn't mean most of them aren't too scared to do so. The worse they can do is say NO... and then WHO cares what they think! NEXT! =)
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