[aman1]

Hi my wife don't listen to me and disobey me

[ordinaryguy]

Maybe your conversation is boring and your orders are unreasonable. So what's your question?

[J_9]

He!! I don't obey my husband, he is neither my parent or my boss. We are a partnership, we make decisions together, so, again, what is your question?

[Allheart]

Well good for her... wish I could give her the rep :)

[CaptainForest]

You know what?

SHE should be in charge and you should take orders from HER!

[talaniman]

hi my wife dont listen to me and disobey me

And your problem is what? If you want to be obeyed buy a dog... they are easier to train.

Seriously if you stop giving orders she wouldn't have to disobey you.

[Krs]

hi my wife dont listen to me and disobey me

Your wife isn't a child!

Your wife isn't a cat!
Your wife isn't a dog!

Your wife is an adult and she doesnt need to obey her husband like a child has to or your cat or your dog!!

[moonshine]

aman1, please don't go down this route.

You, your wife, daughters, sisters, mother... no one will ever be happy if you keep everything role based.

If you respect other people's individuality and don't typecast them into roles of "wife", "mother", "servant", etc, you will find that there is a lot of free flowing love and goodness in people.

Don't restrict them, chill out, have a good laugh at yourself.
Trust me, you'll be happier.

[Feeling Foolish]

Are you kidding me?? Obey you? You do realize that we are living in the 21st century. A marriage is 50/50. I think your wife should be the one asking for advice, on how to change your male chauvinism.

[Tuscany]

There was a reason that the obey line was taken out of my marriage vows.
My father was the only man in my life that I will ever need to obey... and that is when I was a child.
I applaud your wife for not obeying you.

[Feeling Foolish]

I agree with Tuscany. I had them taken out of my marriage vows as well.

[jenni9]

Me too! Are you her RULER or MASTER? Must she BOW to you? I don't think so! No one should be "told what to do" unless they're a child, like "go clean your room"! :) or "finish your vegetables"!

[8288]

Hey,

Why your wife, have to obey you!
She is not your servant.
Give equal right to your wife...
True love only can able to form strong and happy relationship.