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hallie78 · Mar 26, 2010, 03:00 PM

I like this guy and he says he likes this other girl, but he never talks to her. I think he likes me because he always says he wants to make out with me and other stuff that I'm not going to share. He always asks who I like and stuff related to liking or kissing. He liked me all last year and I didn't like him back then. Did I blow my chances?

I wish · Mar 27, 2010, 07:41 AM

Sounds like he wants a friends with benefits arrangement. I'm guessing that you're not on the same page?

If you can't get on the same page, then leave each other alone, otherwise you're just setting yourself up for disappointment.

talaniman · Mar 27, 2010, 07:36 PM

He likes you all right and would be more than happy to use your body. So no, you didn't blow your chance, if you give him what he wants from you.

hallie78 · Mar 27, 2010, 08:48 PM

My friend said she's going to talk to him about it. Should I just tell him I like him or just let my friend get all the questions out of him and leave it there?

Kitkat22 · Mar 27, 2010, 08:54 PM

You need to chill! Concentrate on school. Leave the guy alone. If he were interested, he would have told you by now!

hallie78 · Mar 27, 2010, 09:03 PM

Well he kind of has!

Kitkat22 · Mar 27, 2010, 09:05 PM

Originally Posted by hallie78

well he kinda has!

Kind of! How?

hallie78 · Mar 27, 2010, 09:09 PM

He tells me he wants to makeout with me and some other stuff

Kitkat22 · Mar 27, 2010, 09:15 PM

Originally Posted by hallie78

he tells me he wants to makeout with me and some other stuff

That is not like. That is lust ! He likes someone else and tells you he wants to make out and "other stuff". The other stuff young lady is him wanting to get into your pants. I hope you are smart enough to know the difference. I'll bet he's told other girls the same thing. Don't fall for it! How old are you? How old is he?

hallie78 · Mar 27, 2010, 09:20 PM

Never mind you don't no what your talking about

talaniman · Mar 28, 2010, 05:37 AM

What's this other stuff? Going places to have fun, or getting over your house when your parents aren't home and doing the naughty with you?

Why can't you tell us how old you are? Is it because Kit Kat is right, and you don't want to be wrong?

Why can't you talk to the guy yourself? Why do you need a friend to do it for you?

hallie78 · Mar 28, 2010, 07:59 AM

Wer both 14 and of course I'm not doing it with him! I'm waaay smarter then that! Its called abstinence!

Kitkat22 · Mar 28, 2010, 10:20 AM

Originally Posted by hallie78

wer both 14 and of course im not doing it with him! im waaay smarter then that! its called abstinence!

Sure you are... Don't you realize at fourteen his hormones and yours are raging? It may be innocent now but how would you feel if you go out with this guy and those raging hormones kick in. Pregnant or STD and him bragging about you being an easy conquest!

I'm not saying this to hurt you or make you feel bad about yourself.. Boys that age have a way of wanting to be the school "stud". You are way to young to be dating. Wait another year or two before you even consider getting a boyfriend and maybe by that time you will be mature enough to know the difference in love and lust. Good luck

talaniman · Mar 28, 2010, 10:56 AM

Be phone pals, and see each other at school, as I doubt your parents let you do more than that any way, without lying to them.

hallie78 · Mar 28, 2010, 01:25 PM

I'm not to young to have a boyfriend... I've had a ton since I was like 10. Im not having sex with anyone and he probably doesn't really mean it.

Kitkat22 · Mar 28, 2010, 01:30 PM

Originally Posted by hallie78

im not to young to have a boyfriend... ive had a ton since i was like 10. Im not having sex with anyone and he probably doesnt really mean it.

Your parents allowed you to have boyfriends at ten years old! I don't believe that for a second! What year of school are you in? What is your GPA? You want advice here goes, leave the guy alone. Concentrate on your education! Fourteen is much to young to date! :rolleyes:

hallie78 · Mar 28, 2010, 01:41 PM

My parents don't care! Its nothing serious! I'm in A B honor role! I go to private school and I'm really smart! I don't even have to tell my parents if I have a boyfriend because they trust me! Just because I've gone out with a bunch of guys doesn't mean I'm not smart. I'm sure you think I'm a slut but I'm not. I've got guys who really want to go out with me but I turn them down for the guy I actually like. That's not slutty at all. How old are you? And when did you have your first boyfriend or kiss?

Kitkat22 · Mar 28, 2010, 01:45 PM

Originally Posted by hallie78

my parents dont care! its nothing serious! im in A B honor role! i go to private school and im really smart! i dont even have to tell my parents if i have a boyfriend because they trust me! just because ive gone out with a bunch of guys doesnt mean im not smart. im sure u think im a slut but im not. ive got guys who really wanna go out with me but i turn them down for the guy i actually like. thats not slutty at all. how old r u? and when did u hav ur first boyfriend or kiss?

Old enough to know a line of bull! Didn't say you were a slut! Grow up!

hallie78 · Mar 28, 2010, 01:50 PM

I am pretty old enough to keep myself in line! I'm grown up enough! I'm sorry that guys like me and sounds like they weren't so interested in you when you were my age

talaniman · Mar 28, 2010, 01:50 PM

You have had a ton of boyfriends, so why are you worried about this one?