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nickewen · Feb 16, 2010, 02:54 PM

Threads merged, please keep all questions regarding the same issue in the same thread.

OK well here goes there is this girl I am falling for she has a boyfriend and she cheated on him with me 2 times and I am really starting to like her and I don't know what to do I can't be her booty call I'm not like that she is the second girl I ever slept with and I don't want to freak her out she knows I like her but I don't know if she likes me and if she dose is it just for sex or what I'm really confused about it all

LivingtheLifeinFLA · Feb 16, 2010, 03:01 PM

I'm not sure how old you are, but she might be good for fun but not for the long term.

She is cheating on her boyfriend with you. Relationships are based on trust, otherwise you go crazy because your girlfriend doesn't have your back and you don't have hers. The small issues then pick away at the foundation until it crumbles.

The problem with this type of infatuation relationship is that it crushes your heart and leads to the depression that so many talk about here. This is lust not love. When it ends, hopefully you will learn from it, and can apply those experiences to your future relationships.

Good luck.

nickewen · Feb 16, 2010, 03:04 PM

I know its lust but I liked her before we hooked up its just diff now and I'm 19 and I don't know its just she's amazing and I like her a lot but I don't know what exactly to do

I wish · Feb 16, 2010, 04:06 PM

Boyfriend = Off-limits

Cheater = Red flag

Repeat cheater = How can you trust?

How old are you?

LivingtheLifeinFLA · Feb 16, 2010, 04:09 PM

Nickewen,

I think that it's time to construct proper sentence structure. Can you reread your post, then correct the grammar prior to posting? It would benefit everyone here.

Thank you.

Devorameira · Feb 16, 2010, 05:39 PM

The girl is already taken. Why not go out and find a woman that you don't have to share with her boyfriend?

dynocompe · Feb 16, 2010, 05:43 PM

Just Imagine this. You are her boyfriend right now. Your wondering what she is doing, you can tell she is lying to you. You know something is up. Then you realize, what's up, its another guys package in your girlfriend. She has now been unfaithful to you.
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
Stay away, find a single girl

jmjoseph · Feb 16, 2010, 05:47 PM

She is forbidden fruit. Not sweet fruit, but sour. Like a lemon.

You are trying to take another man's girl, and that's just plain wrong.

If she does choose you, how do you know that she would be faithful to YOU?

Do you have a magic "wand"?

Save yourself some heartache. Find a girl that doesn't have boyfriend, and one that you don't have to worry about cheating on you.

Fr_Chuck · Feb 16, 2010, 05:56 PM

Yep, if she wanted to leave other boy, and then date you, but one who will cheat one him with you, will cheat on you with someone,

Romefalls19 · Feb 16, 2010, 07:53 PM

1. She's in a relationship, she's off limits

2. If I was her boyfriend and found out, you'd be limping away from our conversation.

Stop this before you get even further into this problem

talaniman · Feb 16, 2010, 08:24 PM

I can't be her booty call I'm not like that

Your already a booty call for a liar and cheater. Now what? You leave her alone, or keep being her booty call.

But I don't know if she likes me and if she dose is it just for sex

Of course liars and cheaters like their booty call for sex, why else would they lie and cheat if it weren't for sex??

Don't believe me? Stop having sex, and being her booty call and see how fast she gets rid of you. Try it, I dare you.