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    khushi005 Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 12, 2010, 08:01 AM
    How to convince parents for inter caste marriage
    Hi everyone... I am in prob... hope that you guys can help me... I belong to jatt sikh family and m in love with lubana boy(same religion bt nt same caste).I live here in India and he and his whole family lives in USA.My parents are looking a match for me from the same community.How can I convince thm that I want to marry guy of my choice.Now boy's parents are cuming to india and they are willing to come to meet my parents... tell me the best way with which I can convince my parents for inter cast marriage.Please help me... v gt very less tym...
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    Feb 12, 2010, 08:35 AM

    I am sorry, but this is something you will have to deal with yourself. You are the only one who knows the personality of your parents, and your religious issues. If they don't want you to marry this person, then they probably have a very good reason not to allow it.

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    Feb 25, 2010, 05:58 AM

    I don't know what to do... my parents are saying they will look for that guy only if they can't find out match for me with in our community... so now tell me what should I do?should I say to all d boys that I like someone else... or you guys can suggest me something better... Help...
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    Mar 9, 2010, 11:15 PM
    Simply say no to all guys your parents show to you.. then they won't get a match for you then they ll make your marry with whom you want to.
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    Mar 13, 2010, 08:43 AM

    OK I'll try that... I hope this may work for me... thanx pavana1
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    Mar 13, 2010, 07:19 PM
    Speak to your parents - I don't know what your relationship with them is like or how 'fixed' the traditional arrangements are.

    All I can suggest is that you have the conversation with them and let them know you'd like to be the one to choose.

    In the end it all depends on how strongly they object to you marrying someone from a different caste.
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    Sep 4, 2010, 06:06 AM
    Do one thg , introduce that guy as your frd. After some time try to show his + points in front of parents. Then at last inform them the fact.
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