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    Feb 7, 2010, 07:42 PM
    I need to make friends!
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    Hello all I'm a 22 year old male college student. I just got out of a nearly 4 year relationship and am I need of help making friends. Any advice?
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    Feb 7, 2010, 08:25 PM

    Just be yourself man and do your own thing and sooner or later friends will be drawn to you.
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    Feb 7, 2010, 09:45 PM

    Put yourself out there.

    Hobbies? Sports? Social gatherings? Friends of friends? Volunteering? Taking a course?
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    Feb 13, 2010, 12:47 PM

    they don't just come like that you need to get out there and get a talk going or go to the lunch room but NEVER jump in a random talk to make friends.
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    Feb 25, 2010, 08:15 PM

    I agree with the suggestions in this thread.
    Just to add: don't try to make friends. Try to be the best person you can be. If you do your best you will never be sorry. If you built it, they will come (law of attraction). This is often associated with attracting members of the opposite sex, but honestly, it works for everybody from potential employers to the football coach. Think of the process as marketing a product if that helps.

    Good luck! Keep us posted on your progess!
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    Feb 27, 2010, 10:21 AM

    Organise an activity with some of your class mates?

    It a good way to forge friendships outside the classroom.
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    Mar 17, 2010, 08:26 AM

    I have to agree with everyone. Just be yourself!
    Maybe it's me, I have an outgoing personality, if I want to be friends with someone, I just walk up and say hi, rofl.

    If you have any activates or hobbies, try joining clubs.
    I think those are the best 'ice breakers', because you'll have at least one thing in common with the person in the club/class!

    Like someone mentioned, don't force yourself to make friends. Just have fun and go with the flow.
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    Mar 17, 2010, 08:27 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by mastermagican View Post
    they dont just come like that you need to get out there and get a talk going or go to the lunch room but NEVER jump in a random talk to make friends.
    I jump in a random talk and I make friends that way. :[
    It works for SOME people.
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