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    EmoPrincess Posts: 1,068, Reputation: 92
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    #41

    Jan 26, 2010, 08:01 PM
    Talk to your family. Tell them the effects. But if they are like my family and don't listen, all you can do is avoid it and ignore it
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    #42

    Jan 26, 2010, 08:08 PM

    I don't know it's just one of those stupid annoying things they do... ugghhhh I just guess I'm going to have to do something about it... damn it LOL. Yeah Emo Princess it seems like they don't listen that much
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    #43

    Jan 26, 2010, 08:10 PM

    You and your girlfriend need to just ignore them. Trust me, I've been through it and still go through it.
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    #44

    Jan 26, 2010, 08:11 PM
    However, some of what they say may have importance. Rarely any kid/teen/young adult (or even a full grown man or woman) wants to hear criticizism, but it may be helpful in appeasing them
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    #45

    Jan 26, 2010, 08:20 PM

    They just like to and complain about stupid stuff
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    #46

    Jan 26, 2010, 08:22 PM

    And how do you react?
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    #47

    Jan 26, 2010, 08:32 PM

    Like I said I've just stopped caring what they or anyone say along time ago. The guys at work say I'm a duck, it just rolls off my back like nothing happens LOL
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    #48

    Jan 26, 2010, 09:18 PM

    I think that nitpicking anybody for essentially, entertainment purposes, is very disrespectful.

    If they had something serious to say, do it in private with the parties concerned, not a family gang-up on one individual, or that individuals girlfriend.

    Cheap shots I'd say.

    Continue being a duck.
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    #49

    Jan 28, 2010, 03:15 PM

    You can avoid what they are saying. But remember that your parents have had more experience than you, they have good intentions, and they have your best in mind, so I would take a listen as to what they have to say, and if anything, maybe even consider it.
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    #50

    Jan 28, 2010, 03:35 PM

    If race is the problem, I stand corrected. You need to ignore what they say and not pay them any attention. OR, if you're brave enough, confront them on it.

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