[rdivyar]

My name is divya maan
Born on 30th July 1990 at 4:25 am
I am in love with a boy named rahul sharma and he also loves me a lot
We love each other deeply
But we are not of same caste so our parents have problem with our relationship
I want to know will we be able to get married

[Fr_Chuck]

Has he talked to your father, does your nation allow marriage without family approval ?

[rdivyar]

No firstly we are thinking of setting up in our careers
And our nation permits intercaste marriage but in our society its not considered good for reputation

[Cat1864]

I am sorry but we are not fortunetellers or psychics. We can't tell you what the future holds.

About all that I can advise is that you think very seriously about your relationship with him, your family and your community. Love is a wonderful feeling as long as there isn't anything to test it. Marriage is not easy when both parties enter into it with support from their families. Attempting a relationship with someone who has a different culture (even if it is a caste difference) is not easy. The families objecting adds another level of difficulty. I know that you are aware of the consequences of marrying against your families' wishes. Keep in mind that one of the least serious ones is leaving your family and not being welcomed back.

Be certain in your own mind and heart that you love him for him and not because it is 'forbidden' or that you are in love with the idea of being in love.

[naomi_9r]

According to me, you should get marry where your parents tells you... being in love, you are ignoring / cannot see the drawback of intercaste marriage, but later on when you / your children will face the trouble, it will be too late... to step back.