[Enigma1999]

Hello Spitvenom,

Thank you for sharing that with me. That's exactly what happened with him, he too was thrown off by it. All he could do was brush my hair with his fingers and reasure me that he would never hurt me.. and the fact that I never cried before/during/ or after my exhusband and I had sex, made more concerned as to why I did this time. Now, I do know that the sex with Mark was more intense then it was with my ex, so that could also be why..

[ohsohappy]

Hello again and thankyou,

Ohsohappy: I have mentioned to Mark that we should take it slow. He says that he is fine either way. He also said, "Give me a chance to prove you wrong, I dare you!!!!" So when he says things like that, it does show that he wants to invest in this relationship with me. Also, he is in it for the long run. He and I both have our children 5 days out of the week, so naturally, they are our top priority. That is one of the things that attracted me to him, was the fact that he loves his kids so much.. Also, he has never pressured me into anything. He said once I was ready to move forward, that's fine by him.. It was I again who took control of the situation and initiated sex.


Jmjoseph: Very good analogy, and I see where you are coming from. I will try to work on my walls.

He has also mentioned that he is afraid that he is just a rebound, so I know his guard is up as well. I told him the same thing he has once told me, "Give me a chance to prove you wrong, I dare you!!!"

Then that's good, Just trying to reassure you. :)

[Enigma1999]

Thanks Ohso,

You're a sweet heart for helping me out! :)

[ohsohappy]

Thanks Ohso,

You're a sweet heart for helping me out! :)

No problem. :)