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    LizB100 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 13, 2009, 07:12 AM
    My friend accused me of liking her (both girls).
    And now I don't know what to do! I've denied it so far but truth is I do and I understand that some of the things I've done could have given her that impression.

    She said that she'd still be my friend, however I know she's just saying that so I'll say that I do because I know that she'll ignore me if I admit that I do.

    Problem is although I find her attractive/ love her personality, the thought of doing anything with her (kissing etc) makes me feel sick and I have no feelings towards any other women.

    Now she's ignoring me, I've made her feel awkward, I just don't want her to blank me forever because I would hate it if this ruined our friendship (which it probably will) Also I don't want her telling any of our other friends.

    I don't know what to do, should I just leave her alone? Anyone been in a similar situation? Would really appreciated some advice! Thank you.
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    Devorameira Posts: 2,461, Reputation: 981
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    Dec 13, 2009, 08:42 AM

    Relationships are relationships, whether they involve men & women, women & women, or men & men. Since you have already indicated that the thought of an intimate relationship with her makes you sick, I think you already know the answer... Leave her alone! :p
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    Dec 13, 2009, 09:15 AM

    It seems this friendship is already over so I suggest you move on and make new friends.
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    Dec 13, 2009, 09:27 AM

    Whatever it is you want from her, she is unwilling to give it, so leave her alone and go about your own business.

    She will have to get over it (whatever it is) on her own.

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