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    intel_invest Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 7, 2009, 01:56 AM
    Do want to get back her
    Hi,

    I had a relationship around 18 months back which lasted for 6-8 months we had planned for everything right from purchasing our house... etc... we never sleep with each other... but due to some family problems (?) she broke.I was just not able to get rid of it & some how mistakenly or intentionally I called her she talked to me in really good manner after 2-3 times casual talks,she made it clear that there your calling me for no use & would be good for you if you don't dug your past from then I had never called her intentionally but once say a month back I gave her miss called late night (mistakenly !Actually I had to call other person) but now her B-day is approaching near that is 13 oct & again I am in confusion Should I wish her Yes/No & getting impatience.

    Also I would like to mention that few Days back she read my e-mail which I had sent her around a year ago containing some of our Pics & it's not that I am still in Madly Love with her but still some where I miss her a Lot.

    So kindly do reply as soon as possible.

    Regards
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    Oct 7, 2009, 04:20 AM

    Look you was in relationship with her not now I can understand what are you thinking ri8 now but she told you that don't cal message her then why are you thinking about her and about her birthday so you can message her 4 that that is good for you and for her also
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    Oct 7, 2009, 04:53 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by roocha View Post
    look u was in relationship with her not now i can understand what r u thinking ri8 now but she told u that dont cal msg her then y r u thinking abt her and abt her birthday so u can msg her 4 that that is good 4 u and 4 her also
    Its difficult to read your posts,its easier if you write complete words,text speak is not allowed on the site,if you have a read over the rules you will find your way around the site a lot easier.
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    Oct 7, 2009, 04:54 AM

    I would suggest that you delete her number from your phone book,and start no contact.

    She has made herself clear that she does not want to speak to you.. the relationship is over..

    Do not make any more contact,birthday or no birthday.
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    Nov 12, 2009, 09:21 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by roocha View Post
    look u was in relationship with her not now i can understand what r u thinking ri8 now but she told u that dont cal msg her then y r u thinking abt her and abt her birthday so u can msg her 4 that that is good 4 u and 4 her also


    Thanks Roocha for u words it really ease a lot... of pressure Thanks a lot... :)
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    Nov 12, 2009, 09:41 AM

    Learn to type people. Next you'll be trying to communicate with gang signs or clicking stick together.
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    Nov 22, 2009, 08:30 AM

    I'm not sure what your question is.
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    Nov 22, 2009, 08:35 AM
    In this one she told you it was over... I suggest to start no contact..
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    Nov 22, 2009, 09:34 AM

    Her actions are clear, much more so than your post, but I think you accept she dumped you. Go No Contact and read the stickies at the beginning of this forum, to learn how to move ahead with your life without her in it.

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