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    Nov 19, 2009, 08:59 PM
    My boyfriend is older then me. How do I introduce him to my mom?
    K so my boyfriend is 19 and I'm 15. I have known him for a long time and we've just been friends. We started dating when he was 18. My sister knows and she hates the guy which makes me more scared to tell my mom. My mom knows I hang out with then just not that I'm dating one of them. How do I tell my mom? My sister can't be there because she'll swing her opinion in a second.. help?
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    Nov 19, 2009, 09:29 PM
    He is to old for you... maybe when your 18 then you to should date
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    Nov 19, 2009, 09:32 PM

    Sorry, if you can't tell your mom you don't need to be dating him. And personally he is too old for you at this age group.
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    Nov 21, 2009, 10:16 PM

    Tell her, or she finds out the hard way, and then its trouble. Its probably trouble for him any way, as he is too old for you.

    Save him the trouble, and stop dating an older guy, jail bait!
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    Nov 21, 2009, 10:24 PM
    I sure hope that you are not having sex with this guy. He could be charged with statutory rape.

    You need to stop seeing this guy, and find someone your own age.

    You will not get any advice here to help you tell your mother that you, a minor, is "dating" an adult. It's against the law in the US, and in other countries.

    He could be convicted, and put on a sexual offenders list if he is having sex with a minor.
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    Nov 21, 2009, 10:35 PM

    OK you have 4 replies he is too old for you
    Let me try to explain WHY?
    At 19 he is old enough to start taking on responsibilties of his own,he can fight for his country,vote etc.
    The system is getting him ready for being a man and he should be concentrating on these things,he has big decisions to make that will effect him the rest of his life.
    At 15 you should not have to deal with these issues in a relationship it should be fun,movies etc.
    In order for your relationship to grow,either he has to go backwards and be immature,or you have to speed up and be more mature and it just isn't good for both.
    Enjoy your teens,trust me talk to any girl that was in a big hurry to grow up and she will tell you what a big mistake it was and how she would give ANYTHING to go back and change things.
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