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    mishelly3 Posts: 300, Reputation: 16
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    Nov 8, 2009, 03:50 AM
    Iam so confused?
    My boyfriendand I were to gether for 6 mo, then I got pregnant with twins, lost one and have had no problems till the other day, at 4 1/2 mo I lost sam my son... we were both devistated... We live in different states and I had just gotten back from a trip seeing him and we had so much fun buying things and making plans, then this happen... I called him tp help him and he just started screaming. Seeing that this man has a real tough time showing emotions. Ive called and texted he won't reply. I know when we lost our first son he told me that he was thinking of suicide. The one time I did talk to him he was crying and talking about sam and very drunk...

    Iam so scared I have no contact at all mow. He did tell me a week ago he meeded space but , where do you draw the line?
    I've called hospitals in Texas but haven't found out anything.. I don't know his parnets welliam so scared for his safety...

    WHAT DO I DO, IAM SCARED FOR HIM?
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    Nov 8, 2009, 05:10 AM
    Im very sorry for your loss-are you yourself getting the help you need? As for your boyfriend I suggest that you do call his parents
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    Nov 8, 2009, 05:15 AM

    I don't know them, or how to contact them.I think he has a brother that is a mechanic over there, illl look him up. I just need to know he is OK..
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    Nov 8, 2009, 05:17 AM
    If he said that he needed space, then wait for him to contact you. Leave him alone and do your own thing. What you should do is respect his wishes.

    Focus on healing from your own loss. Once you both healed from your respective experiences, you will be in a better position to find each other again.
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    Nov 8, 2009, 05:27 AM

    You, your right I am just worried, if he would texted me and tell me he is OK I would be perfectlly fine it just the un none that's killing me.
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    Nov 8, 2009, 05:31 AM
    He will text you when he's ready to. You have to respect his wishes for not contacting you.

    Go do your own thing, take care of yourself first.
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    Nov 8, 2009, 05:40 AM
    The OP has another post requesting help for this issue, and is shooting dope.

    Michelle, I know that you are hurting, but please get into a detox center, now.
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